The Fine Art Of Winning Arguments Can Be Learned

Online, July 26, 2010 (Newswire.com) - When it comes to arguments, there are different kinds of winning - from an all-out smashing of the "enemy," to a wishy-washy semi-win, which both parties generally find unsatisfying.

Many people don't realize that there is an art to arguing - as described in the new down-loadable booklet, "How to Win An Argument" (AnswerGirls $1). This booklet explains how to win arguments in a manner that is completely satisfying to the winner, yet leaves the loser feeling validated too, on some points. "How to Win An Argument" is available exclusively from www.AnswerGirls.com.

The author shared the following tips:

"Rarely can we completely change another person's mind on an issue, but we can learn how to give that person the validation he or she needs to feel as though their point has been heard. In actual gains, he or she may not have "scored," but they will leave the confrontation feeling as though they have.

Through practice, the art can be fine-tuned. This booklet gives detailed instructions on the 10 steps to winning, from picking your fight (as well as the time and place), to re-stating your opponent's position, or citing evidence from an authority, albeit unobtrusively. For example:

If you want to use evidence to back up your side, first validate at least some part of your accuser's statement, then slip in the evidence, without fanfare."

By mastering the booklet's techniques, you'll keep your adversary off guard and remain in control. You'll leave the argument with the knowledge that no one bullied you into accepting any position you didn't want to take."

To learn the 10 dynamic steps to winning an argument download "How to Win An Argument" at www.AnswerGirls.com/living1.html.